Following the selection of a “forbidden” name for my son, I came to the realization of a family secret.

Has a great deal of significance for you while also providing your parents with a little concession that will make things simpler for everyone involved.

Get a letter written.

Try sending a letter to your father instead of talking about this if you find that it is too difficult to do so.

During the letter, you might let him know that you were unaware of the past but that you now understand the emotions he is experiencing.

Alternatively, you may explain that you picked the name Chris out of love and to pay tribute to the brother of your spouse who passed away.